BMD Billing, Messages & Docket

A calmer record for complex co-parenting.

Track bills, messages, orders, impasse decisions, and child-centered records with secure tenant isolation and clear access boundaries.

Family court often requires a record. BMD is built to keep necessary facts organized while helping families stay calmer, clearer, and less reactive.

Security first

Tenant isolation, least-privilege access, encrypted financial data, and parent-specific boundaries.

Child-centered

Records stay attached to the right child, case, parent, and source instead of one mixed timeline.

Court-ready

Orders, ledgers, source imports, export packets, and access history are organized for review.

Private by design

Financial disclosures and child records are shared only with authorized people.

Child Selected child

Bill Parser

Parsed

Aspirus statement

Total charges
$1,245.00
Insurance credits
-$845.32
Requestable
$219.84

Child Ledger

Total requested$1,248.29
Balance owed$424.14

Impasse Decision

Orthodontic evaluation

  • Agree
  • Agree with caveats
  • Do not agree
  • No response

Message Imports

OFW import142
iMessage JSON87

Recent Activity

Payment recorded

Dispute reason submitted

Export packet drafted

Security & Access

Authorized parent scope

Encrypted financial area

Audit history available

Financial clarity without oversharing

Bill parsing

Upload a statement or receipt. BMD extracts charges, insurance credits, child attribution, and requestable amounts.

Parent ledgers

Track requested, paid, partial, and disputed amounts by child and authorized parent.

Confidential disclosures

FDS, tax, insurance, and reimbursement records stay scoped to the correct parent view.

Communications with context

BMD Collector

Bring one person’s iMessage, SMS, WhatsApp, email, OFW, or other family-app export into one source-preserving timeline.

Private BMD email

Use a parent-owned @mybmd.org reply address; inbound email is spam-filtered, encrypted, fingerprinted, and filed with the right contact and child.

Human-reviewed patterns

BMD suggests what a message does—not what a person is. You confirm what matters before it can appear in a report.

Designed for protected access

Tenant isolation

Each family, child partition, parent, delegate, and platform role gets explicit access boundaries.

Encrypted financial data

Sensitive disclosures, payment handles, messages, comments, and stored files use protected storage paths.

Activity history

Read, share, import, and payment activity is recorded without making the product feel punitive.

Ready for the phone in your hand.

The same child-scoped workflows are designed to collapse cleanly for a mobile bookmark or wrapped iOS experience.

Public TestFlight signup is the next step after Apple lists the beta. This button stays on this page until the public join link is published.

Request access or get in touch

Tell us how you would like to use BMD, ask for more information, or get help.

Please do not include passwords, court records, or private family information.